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difficult child is good in outside world, but horrible at home.
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<blockquote data-quote="Allan-Matlem" data-source="post: 387504" data-attributes="member: 10"><p>Hi,</p><p></p><p>He is probably making a lot of efforts to hold it in at school and literaly unwinds on you. Maybe you could work out with a ' winding down ' ritual to help him settle down.</p><p></p><p>I am very passionate about CPS - collaborative problem solving . The way to go in my humble opinion is to focus on ' connecting and bonding with him , entering his world , getting him to speak and you listen. Discuss general stuff like you would with a friend . You can also start prioritizing problems and working on a few of them. The main work in problem solving is hearing the kids concerns, helping feel heard and seeing you as a help. He has to learn to trust you. </p><p></p><p>I believe a lot in mentors , buddy tutors , older brothers etc . If you can find someone to take him out for some fun and who will reach out to him so he will confide in him , and talk to him helps a lot.</p><p></p><p>I try to share a lot on CPS here and on my blog </p><p></p><p>Allan </p><p>http:allankatz-parentingislearning.blogspot</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Allan-Matlem, post: 387504, member: 10"] Hi, He is probably making a lot of efforts to hold it in at school and literaly unwinds on you. Maybe you could work out with a ' winding down ' ritual to help him settle down. I am very passionate about CPS - collaborative problem solving . The way to go in my humble opinion is to focus on ' connecting and bonding with him , entering his world , getting him to speak and you listen. Discuss general stuff like you would with a friend . You can also start prioritizing problems and working on a few of them. The main work in problem solving is hearing the kids concerns, helping feel heard and seeing you as a help. He has to learn to trust you. I believe a lot in mentors , buddy tutors , older brothers etc . If you can find someone to take him out for some fun and who will reach out to him so he will confide in him , and talk to him helps a lot. I try to share a lot on CPS here and on my blog Allan http:allankatz-parentingislearning.blogspot [/QUOTE]
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