THEY ARE LYING LYING LYING!!!
SIGN NOTHING AT ALL EXCEPT A RECORDS REQUEST!!
That IEP meeting was ILLEGAL if they did not give you proper notice - which must be IN WRITING and given days in advance, not a call the night before to discuss something. If they cannot PROVE they MAILED the IEP notice then it never happened, or so atty's here have told us.
that paper they want you to sign puts ALL the expense back on YOU and makes them responsible for NOTHING. Get an advocate - call the state board of ed for helpwith one, or google you name, state, and education advocate.
This is really really really typical school system BS and they are great at catching you at bad times and pressuring you to sign. You sign NOTHING other than the notice that says you were there until a lawyer sees it. NOTHING.
You also can likely find help/info from Wrightslaw - they are an amazing resource. Google will let you see if it is a .com or .org or whatever.
