Thanks everyone. Believe me, I am NOT signing anything. I really appreciate all the support and advice. It is hard enough when dealing with difficult child worsening behavior and when you add in our damn sd and it is enough to overwhelm any parent. I wish they would just leave us alone and find another family to pick on till difficult child is back there again! Do you know what brought this all on?? On Tues husband and I got the courtesy automated message to tell me he was absent. It was the sd first day back after break and before the holidays we didn't get the message. The partial program did not start till Wed so I called the principal to let her know he was not absent but the partial program was off. (I had to leave a message for her). I missed her return call where she apologized and assured me they knew he was not absent, blah, blah....then I got this e-mail. Whatever! I need to worry about difficult child getting help and the sd is NOT high on my priority list but I guess I will have to find someone to help me deal with this issue.
Oh, and at our bus top when difficult child is attending his regular school is a mom whose older boy is autistic she told me they did the same things to them a couple years ago, including showing up at their house uninvited 2 times. (they have showed up here once uninvited). Her boy is now going to a special school for autistic children that the school is paying for but before that they were h@ll to deal width. (she is glad he is at this special school now) I wish I could find other parents other than this one who have gone thru this to help me deal with them.
