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<blockquote data-quote="dstc_99" data-source="post: 625354" data-attributes="member: 15473"><p>Thanks guys!</p><p> </p><p>Trust me if I had half the issues with my difficult child that some of you are facing she would not be moving back. My difficult child basically just has issues with disrespect and anger. She has never had issues with drug addiction, alchohol addiction, or been in treatment other than generic therapy. I am very aware that things will have to be monitored and changes made immediately if she doesn't comply.</p><p> </p><p>I really like the rules MWM has. They are simple and direct. She can follow all of them with little effort except for the disrespect and that is the area we will be working on. I may add to the rules that she must attend counseling either with me or by herself. I wont allow her anger and disrespect to disrupt the house and easy child's life like it did before.</p><p> </p><p>When I talked to easy child about it last night she once again started on being mad at difficult child for all she has done to us. I told her I want her to think about the things difficult child has done to her and let us worry about the things difficult child has done to us. We have moved on from them and don't want them making her upset. All she needs to worry about is herself and getting over her issues with difficult child in a healthy way.</p><p> </p><p>Right now it looks like we will be shipping her car here and flying her out. It is cheaper that way. Basically she only has clothes she needs to move and all the furniture can go to my parents. A few of the cheap items I told her to offer to the boyfriend since they are WalMart stuff and wouldn't survive long term storage. He didn't apply for housing at college since they were planning to live together next year so he will need furniture and she doesn't care about it anyway.</p><p> </p><p>When I talked to difficult child last night I mentioned we wouldn't be dealing with all the stress and disrespect and she seemed ok with that. None of the normal attitute she doles out was apparent. Mostly I think she is just really upset that she and boyfriend broke up. That I can understand. I mean they were in LOVE! LOL</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dstc_99, post: 625354, member: 15473"] Thanks guys! Trust me if I had half the issues with my difficult child that some of you are facing she would not be moving back. My difficult child basically just has issues with disrespect and anger. She has never had issues with drug addiction, alchohol addiction, or been in treatment other than generic therapy. I am very aware that things will have to be monitored and changes made immediately if she doesn't comply. I really like the rules MWM has. They are simple and direct. She can follow all of them with little effort except for the disrespect and that is the area we will be working on. I may add to the rules that she must attend counseling either with me or by herself. I wont allow her anger and disrespect to disrupt the house and easy child's life like it did before. When I talked to easy child about it last night she once again started on being mad at difficult child for all she has done to us. I told her I want her to think about the things difficult child has done to her and let us worry about the things difficult child has done to us. We have moved on from them and don't want them making her upset. All she needs to worry about is herself and getting over her issues with difficult child in a healthy way. Right now it looks like we will be shipping her car here and flying her out. It is cheaper that way. Basically she only has clothes she needs to move and all the furniture can go to my parents. A few of the cheap items I told her to offer to the boyfriend since they are WalMart stuff and wouldn't survive long term storage. He didn't apply for housing at college since they were planning to live together next year so he will need furniture and she doesn't care about it anyway. When I talked to difficult child last night I mentioned we wouldn't be dealing with all the stress and disrespect and she seemed ok with that. None of the normal attitute she doles out was apparent. Mostly I think she is just really upset that she and boyfriend broke up. That I can understand. I mean they were in LOVE! LOL [/QUOTE]
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