36 could never follow or rules thus 36 can never live back here.''
in my opinion dcts, your daughter is upset about her boyfrienid. That does not mean she will change in the long term as her ardor fails. I don't think that is a good reason for her to want to come home...wanting to be away from boyfriend. I would approach this with caution and no expectations. It is best...you won't be shocked or get hurt if you realize that you don't know if anything will be different than before and that the boyfriend, not MISSING YOU, was her catalyst for wanting to move. Don't feel bad. difficult children don't think much of our feelings. They often care much more about Abusive Boy/Girlfriend. It is a common trait. And your parents need strict boundaries to stay out of things or she may try to play you against them again. That, if it were me, would be a dealbreaker if she ever did that again.
