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difficult child is now at his "winter home"
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 389728" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I am sorry you have to deal with this. I haven't had the experience, but after my mom knew that my bro was out of jail, in recovery (AA), and somewhat settled in a life, she had a total breakdown. Completely could not function for a long time. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE take care of yourself and husband during this time. Let yourself feel the emotions as they happen. My mom refused to feel them and a couple of years later when they finally came up it was really really bad. I sat with her for hours as she worked through things, shook, cried, etc.... </p><p> </p><p>As far as his stuff, maybe losing it is part of the lesson he needs to learn. Letting him handle the bail, lawyer, etc... on his own is probably the best thing for him. </p><p> </p><p>Congrats on the future adoption. You are an amazing mother and any child would be blessed to have you as her mom. ((((((((((hugs)))))))))) <span style="font-size: 9px"><span style="color: magenta">((((((((((baby hugs))))))))))</span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 389728, member: 1233"] I am sorry you have to deal with this. I haven't had the experience, but after my mom knew that my bro was out of jail, in recovery (AA), and somewhat settled in a life, she had a total breakdown. Completely could not function for a long time. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE take care of yourself and husband during this time. Let yourself feel the emotions as they happen. My mom refused to feel them and a couple of years later when they finally came up it was really really bad. I sat with her for hours as she worked through things, shook, cried, etc.... As far as his stuff, maybe losing it is part of the lesson he needs to learn. Letting him handle the bail, lawyer, etc... on his own is probably the best thing for him. Congrats on the future adoption. You are an amazing mother and any child would be blessed to have you as her mom. ((((((((((hugs)))))))))) [SIZE=1][COLOR=magenta]((((((((((baby hugs))))))))))[/COLOR][/SIZE] [/QUOTE]
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