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difficult child is regressing, cycling, and shutting down
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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 204071" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>hi,</p><p></p><p>i read your post and the pain your in. I"m going to say it again you are not naive or your thought process was not skewed you did what you felt was best. I know it is so very hard when your emotions are raw as they are now (from experience) that not beating yourself up is close to impossible. </p><p></p><p>try to remember though you always function with his best interests in mind. If he doens't calm over the next few days I think maybe removing him would be the best option and get him into a dr. to start the medications again. it's ok that you tried this and it didn't fly. yet how many days has it been now like 5 or 6 since this occurred? how is the staff there handling it? is he getting sleep at all? take a deep breath, call the place again and ask them you know matt best what are his days like now is he able to function to any degree at all, is he sleeping eating? can he be left alone at this point for any measure of time. get their feedback. then sit quietly and start a pro's and con list. pros' of him staying and what is currently going on, con's of him leaving and where would he go next. i often find when i put it on paper it removes my sadness a bit and makes me more functional my emotions become less raw and i am able to look at it from a different perspective. i wish i had more answers for you.</p><p></p><p></p><p>(((( hugs)))))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 204071, member: 4514"] hi, i read your post and the pain your in. I"m going to say it again you are not naive or your thought process was not skewed you did what you felt was best. I know it is so very hard when your emotions are raw as they are now (from experience) that not beating yourself up is close to impossible. try to remember though you always function with his best interests in mind. If he doens't calm over the next few days I think maybe removing him would be the best option and get him into a dr. to start the medications again. it's ok that you tried this and it didn't fly. yet how many days has it been now like 5 or 6 since this occurred? how is the staff there handling it? is he getting sleep at all? take a deep breath, call the place again and ask them you know matt best what are his days like now is he able to function to any degree at all, is he sleeping eating? can he be left alone at this point for any measure of time. get their feedback. then sit quietly and start a pro's and con list. pros' of him staying and what is currently going on, con's of him leaving and where would he go next. i often find when i put it on paper it removes my sadness a bit and makes me more functional my emotions become less raw and i am able to look at it from a different perspective. i wish i had more answers for you. (((( hugs))))) [/QUOTE]
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