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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 283637" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>When difficult child learned about his father a few years ago is when his trouble started. I could almost see him blame himself and he lost all confidence and never acted the same again around boys he'd been in groups with- like scouts. He just changed and kept telling m,e that something must be wrong with him and that he was just born a bad kid. Anmd, he seemed only comfortable when he was around kids who were in trouuble a lot. This is why, once tdocs learn thiss, it seems like a no-brainer to address these issues in therapy first. The family therapy comes into play because difficult child has a tendency to "hate" me becuase as he says, I'm the only person who says he's not that way so I must be lieing.</p><p></p><p>I'm thinking that JROTC could help him see that he is not defective- the only thing "wrong" with him is that he thought something was wrong with him. That doesn't mean he might not need medications or whatever, but shoot, that's not the same thing as being "defective" or a bad seed or whatever.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 283637, member: 3699"] When difficult child learned about his father a few years ago is when his trouble started. I could almost see him blame himself and he lost all confidence and never acted the same again around boys he'd been in groups with- like scouts. He just changed and kept telling m,e that something must be wrong with him and that he was just born a bad kid. Anmd, he seemed only comfortable when he was around kids who were in trouuble a lot. This is why, once tdocs learn thiss, it seems like a no-brainer to address these issues in therapy first. The family therapy comes into play because difficult child has a tendency to "hate" me becuase as he says, I'm the only person who says he's not that way so I must be lieing. I'm thinking that JROTC could help him see that he is not defective- the only thing "wrong" with him is that he thought something was wrong with him. That doesn't mean he might not need medications or whatever, but shoot, that's not the same thing as being "defective" or a bad seed or whatever. [/QUOTE]
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