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difficult child logic (illogic) and difficult child threats...tired of it.
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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 590626" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>You know Pam(I hope you dont mind me calling you that because its easier for me to type), I really get that your son needs to vent about his issues. Actually the idea that he might get every weekend and one night in the middle of the week is very liberal visitation but he isnt thinking clearly. That is still basically half time! </p><p></p><p>I think I would tell him you are more than happy to listen to his thoughts if he will put them all down in emails to you in one each day. He can save them as a draft during the day so he can keep adding his thoughts during the day as he gets enraged over different things then send that email at the end of the day. Now honestly you really dont have to read that email. Send something soothing back later on like you know how to do. Dont even mention custody. I think that is just a hot topic.. I would find the Father to Father custody group online for him to join. They are normally fairly anti-woman and will listen to him rant. LOL. They can probably also give him tips on custody in his state. I would find some way to lesson the actual verbal contact but still let him rant to you because he sees you as his safe person and I wouldnt take that away from him at this time. You dont have to actually process all of it but do give him somewhere to vent to. </p><p></p><p>*Just my two cents.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 590626, member: 1514"] You know Pam(I hope you dont mind me calling you that because its easier for me to type), I really get that your son needs to vent about his issues. Actually the idea that he might get every weekend and one night in the middle of the week is very liberal visitation but he isnt thinking clearly. That is still basically half time! I think I would tell him you are more than happy to listen to his thoughts if he will put them all down in emails to you in one each day. He can save them as a draft during the day so he can keep adding his thoughts during the day as he gets enraged over different things then send that email at the end of the day. Now honestly you really dont have to read that email. Send something soothing back later on like you know how to do. Dont even mention custody. I think that is just a hot topic.. I would find the Father to Father custody group online for him to join. They are normally fairly anti-woman and will listen to him rant. LOL. They can probably also give him tips on custody in his state. I would find some way to lesson the actual verbal contact but still let him rant to you because he sees you as his safe person and I wouldnt take that away from him at this time. You dont have to actually process all of it but do give him somewhere to vent to. *Just my two cents. [/QUOTE]
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