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<blockquote data-quote="nvts" data-source="post: 103224" data-attributes="member: 3814"><p>I don't know that I'd go to pulling him out of the environment right away. This could be rectified with a meeting with the teachers involved. If you approach them in an "explanatory way" rather than confrontational, they may be better able to see where they are giving him a sense of unfair treatment. </p><p></p><p>Also, if you go in and tell them that you recognize that he was fooling around but the punishment needs to be more universal, they will see that difficult child is accepting responsibility for his actions, but is easily "led astray". Explain to them that fair and equitable treatment will allow difficult child to mature faster toward a "non follower" type of mentality. </p><p></p><p>As we say around here "grease the wheel, know that you're using your brain over theirs and twist the system to get what you want". Getting them on your side is key. If you have to make "nice" and play well with others to get them there, so be it. </p><p></p><p>Don't forget the stop for coffee!</p><p> :smile:</p><p></p><p>Beth</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="nvts, post: 103224, member: 3814"] I don't know that I'd go to pulling him out of the environment right away. This could be rectified with a meeting with the teachers involved. If you approach them in an "explanatory way" rather than confrontational, they may be better able to see where they are giving him a sense of unfair treatment. Also, if you go in and tell them that you recognize that he was fooling around but the punishment needs to be more universal, they will see that difficult child is accepting responsibility for his actions, but is easily "led astray". Explain to them that fair and equitable treatment will allow difficult child to mature faster toward a "non follower" type of mentality. As we say around here "grease the wheel, know that you're using your brain over theirs and twist the system to get what you want". Getting them on your side is key. If you have to make "nice" and play well with others to get them there, so be it. Don't forget the stop for coffee! [img]:smile:[/img] Beth [/QUOTE]
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