I know what you are saying about sitting down and talking to her but it's not as easy as that with difficult child. She refuses to talk about anything. She never shows any remorse for any ofher actions and the only way she seems to be able to express herself is through anger. Any time i have tried to sit her down and talk to her she covers her ears and starts screaming over me and next thing I know she's smashing up the house. She never tells me how she feels about anything. It's like she has the emotional maturity of a two year old. Honestly she is exactly like a two year old having a tantrum, only she is bigger and stronger. I feel like i'm banging my head off a brick wall. She won't open up the the psychiatric either. She has never opened up to anyone about how she is feeling. To complete strangers that she meets, she comes across as incredibly shy, she will whisper a reply if asked a question and has very poor eye contact. The more familar she is with someone the more likely she is to rage in front of them.
I have tried charts etc but to no avail. Still awaiting call back from psychiatrist so will see if he can offer any suggestions! I'm in work now, totally exhausted and feel like I'm about to break into tears any give minute. I'm afraid i'm starting to become depressed and I've never suffered from depression in my life!!