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difficult child, school, and my big mistake.
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<blockquote data-quote="Californiablonde" data-source="post: 591748" data-attributes="member: 2196"><p>I talked to my therapist about it yesterday and he thinks she needs to be on her own at lunch time and be forced to try and make friends. He doesn't think it's healthy for us to have lunch together every day. Plus our lunch times are usually different. We only have about ten minutes overlapping time where we are both at lunch at the same time. When she came into my office yesterday the bell was about to ring in about ten minutes or so, so I didn't think her being there the last few minutes would have been a big deal. In my opinion I think my supervisor was being overly picky. And I got offended when she waived around her title and said it was "her office." I may only be an assistant, but I do most of the work around here and I consider it to be our office and not just hers. But then again I do all the work around the place, get paid way less, and never get any credit. She just got employee of the month awhile ago and I don't think she deserves it at all. I have been here seven years and I have never gotten it once, even though I more than deserve it. That's just the way it goes when your nothing but an assistant, I guess. Other than having to deal with her, I really like my job and I don't want anything to jeopardize it. So I had a talk with difficult child last night and told her I don't want her coming to me at all during lunch. Not even if an administrator says it's okay. She agreed, so hopefully the problem is solved for now. As for my coworker, she will get over it like she always does. And I am holding out hope that difficult child will make a friend and she will feel more comfortable here within time.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Californiablonde, post: 591748, member: 2196"] I talked to my therapist about it yesterday and he thinks she needs to be on her own at lunch time and be forced to try and make friends. He doesn't think it's healthy for us to have lunch together every day. Plus our lunch times are usually different. We only have about ten minutes overlapping time where we are both at lunch at the same time. When she came into my office yesterday the bell was about to ring in about ten minutes or so, so I didn't think her being there the last few minutes would have been a big deal. In my opinion I think my supervisor was being overly picky. And I got offended when she waived around her title and said it was "her office." I may only be an assistant, but I do most of the work around here and I consider it to be our office and not just hers. But then again I do all the work around the place, get paid way less, and never get any credit. She just got employee of the month awhile ago and I don't think she deserves it at all. I have been here seven years and I have never gotten it once, even though I more than deserve it. That's just the way it goes when your nothing but an assistant, I guess. Other than having to deal with her, I really like my job and I don't want anything to jeopardize it. So I had a talk with difficult child last night and told her I don't want her coming to me at all during lunch. Not even if an administrator says it's okay. She agreed, so hopefully the problem is solved for now. As for my coworker, she will get over it like she always does. And I am holding out hope that difficult child will make a friend and she will feel more comfortable here within time. [/QUOTE]
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