@[USER=12470]JKF[/USER] thanks for your message. Yes, it is a vicious cycle that our difficult child's are in but it is of their own making. I will always have hope for my difficult child that he can turn his life around but it's his life and his choice and I have to accept that and while I have hope I won't hold my breath (I would surely pass out)
I too have had difficulty while I'm warm and safe in my home and thinking about him out in the cold and I just have to keep reminding myself that he chose to live that way.
It's so comforting to know that I'm not in this alone.
