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difficult child should stick to riding a bike
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<blockquote data-quote="KFld" data-source="post: 41205" data-attributes="member: 2442"><p>Barbara, the funny thing is he knows all these things and says them himself. He tells me how nuts she is all the time and I just keep reminding him that he is the one who chooses to stay with her. </p><p></p><p>It was probably almost a year ago that he changed his cell phone number when he was living further away and he had gone down to the court house to put something into place because she kept showing up and calling his job and almost getting him fired, but then he doesn't follow through. He'll turn around and call her from the changed number so she has it, or go to see her after he tries to stop her from seeing him?? </p><p></p><p>I told him there are many things he can do once he is ready and that he doesn't have to tolerate her calling his job and showing up. I'm sure this next week I will be receiving many phone calls from him that she is calling his work and showing up at his house and I need to just stay calm and remind him, there are things he can do if he wants too. </p><p></p><p>The only thing he said different yesterday when I reminded him that he has gone through this in the past so many times, he said he has a good sponsor now that he can talk to and he thinks it will really help him this time :smile:</p><p></p><p>Maybe that will make the difference and maybe not, but I will not even begin to get my hopes up that this relationship is over. </p><p></p><p>I still shiver also to think what it would have been like if the baby was his. </p><p></p><p>I have always said, he has two addictions, the drugs and her and they are both just as lethal!! He's 7 months clean from one and hopefully someday and I can say that about the other.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="KFld, post: 41205, member: 2442"] Barbara, the funny thing is he knows all these things and says them himself. He tells me how nuts she is all the time and I just keep reminding him that he is the one who chooses to stay with her. It was probably almost a year ago that he changed his cell phone number when he was living further away and he had gone down to the court house to put something into place because she kept showing up and calling his job and almost getting him fired, but then he doesn't follow through. He'll turn around and call her from the changed number so she has it, or go to see her after he tries to stop her from seeing him?? I told him there are many things he can do once he is ready and that he doesn't have to tolerate her calling his job and showing up. I'm sure this next week I will be receiving many phone calls from him that she is calling his work and showing up at his house and I need to just stay calm and remind him, there are things he can do if he wants too. The only thing he said different yesterday when I reminded him that he has gone through this in the past so many times, he said he has a good sponsor now that he can talk to and he thinks it will really help him this time [img]:smile:[/img] Maybe that will make the difference and maybe not, but I will not even begin to get my hopes up that this relationship is over. I still shiver also to think what it would have been like if the baby was his. I have always said, he has two addictions, the drugs and her and they are both just as lethal!! He's 7 months clean from one and hopefully someday and I can say that about the other. [/QUOTE]
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