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Difficult Child sleeping until 3pm
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<blockquote data-quote="elizabrary" data-source="post: 750456" data-attributes="member: 11235"><p>I agree he should be required to have some kind of job. He needs to be bringing in income and have some structure to his life. The longer he goes drifting along the harder it will be for him to work, keep regular hours and be productive. I am a huge proponent for writing up an agreement when adult children return to their parents' home and having them sign it. I did it with my daughter and it had basic points like: have a job (literally ANY job) within 2 weeks, pay 30% of her income to me for household expenses, etc. If you do this you have to be prepared to stick to your guns if your son doesn't follow the agreement. I kicked out my daughter with her infant daughter when she didn't follow the agreement. It was very difficult, but over time I believe it was for the best. Sending peace to you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="elizabrary, post: 750456, member: 11235"] I agree he should be required to have some kind of job. He needs to be bringing in income and have some structure to his life. The longer he goes drifting along the harder it will be for him to work, keep regular hours and be productive. I am a huge proponent for writing up an agreement when adult children return to their parents' home and having them sign it. I did it with my daughter and it had basic points like: have a job (literally ANY job) within 2 weeks, pay 30% of her income to me for household expenses, etc. If you do this you have to be prepared to stick to your guns if your son doesn't follow the agreement. I kicked out my daughter with her infant daughter when she didn't follow the agreement. It was very difficult, but over time I believe it was for the best. Sending peace to you. [/QUOTE]
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