Stealing is the ' behavior' , the looking bad when the demands placed on the kid outstrip his skills. His concerns -' he wants the money to go shopping. His extended school year consists partly of learning to navigate in the community. They are taking the kids down to a popular shopping area and he wants money to buy clothes' - your concerns - not stealing
So solving the problem would be finding a way that he can go shopping with the school and not having to steal to have money
Did you try problem solve to find a mutually satisfying solution which is realistic ?
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