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<blockquote data-quote="nvts" data-source="post: 188571" data-attributes="member: 3814"><p>Hon, I'm so sorry you've gone through this, but you know, this might just be the right thing for both of you. You have said that he was getting reclusive a while ago, you were going through everything you were going through, and the two of you were almost becoming "codependent". It's sort of interesting that he's going through this right after you found peace with H. </p><p> </p><p>Maybe he thought as you were working through everything, that you and he were "in the same boat". When he saw you working through your life's issues, it could have been something too much for him to handle. "Why is she able to move on and I'm just stuck?" It could have sparked a major fear in him that his mind just could not take.</p><p> </p><p>Don't settle on the fact that you won't be together - they may come up with a plan of action that will allow him to grow and stabilize. I would suggest that you try and find a parent advocate that can help you work through the Social Services system. Have you applied for SS disability for him yet? I would suggest it - it could avail you to more help than you need.</p><p> </p><p>Keep posting - I love that your neighbor stepped up to help you - and know in your heart that we're all here for you!</p><p> </p><p>Beth</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="nvts, post: 188571, member: 3814"] Hon, I'm so sorry you've gone through this, but you know, this might just be the right thing for both of you. You have said that he was getting reclusive a while ago, you were going through everything you were going through, and the two of you were almost becoming "codependent". It's sort of interesting that he's going through this right after you found peace with H. Maybe he thought as you were working through everything, that you and he were "in the same boat". When he saw you working through your life's issues, it could have been something too much for him to handle. "Why is she able to move on and I'm just stuck?" It could have sparked a major fear in him that his mind just could not take. Don't settle on the fact that you won't be together - they may come up with a plan of action that will allow him to grow and stabilize. I would suggest that you try and find a parent advocate that can help you work through the Social Services system. Have you applied for SS disability for him yet? I would suggest it - it could avail you to more help than you need. Keep posting - I love that your neighbor stepped up to help you - and know in your heart that we're all here for you! Beth [/QUOTE]
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