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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 492707" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>This is a male dominance thing. He is wanting to be dominant to you. Wiz would come straight at me but he didn't do the tripping, bumping, etc... more than a few times because the one day he did it bad I woke him in the middle of the night with a frying pan 2 inches from his head. We had already done the therapy and medication adjustments for months and nothing stopped and we had spent the ENTIRE day doing what he wanted, buying what he wanted, and he still did that bumping, elbowing, tripping **** and I.Was.Done. I spoke to my dad, who is aspie but also dealt with teen boys for almost 4 decades in the roughest schools 2 states had to offer. He told me to do what my mother would do and wake the boy up with either a rolling pin or a frying pan close to his head and let him see, very very clearly, that if he EVER pulled that koi again he would regret in an incredibly painful way.</p><p></p><p>It worked for about 2 yrs. Then he started "just" headbutting me into things. the "just" comes from husband, who did not understand why having my 14yo son headbutt me so bad I had bruises front and back for weeks was a "big deal" enough to call the cops on him and refuse to live wiht him.</p><p></p><p>YOU have to make a show of strength. So does husband. You must be UNITED. I know what I did sounds barbaric. I know many will NOT agree iwth it. I did not hit wiz, I showed that I COULD hit him if he took his koi any further. His medications were stable or as stable as they could be given he said very little to his docs. </p><p></p><p>If you cannot get this stopped it is going to get really, really, REALLY dangerous for you before too much longer. Esp given his past violence. Stop the World has to be applied to this stuff.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 492707, member: 1233"] This is a male dominance thing. He is wanting to be dominant to you. Wiz would come straight at me but he didn't do the tripping, bumping, etc... more than a few times because the one day he did it bad I woke him in the middle of the night with a frying pan 2 inches from his head. We had already done the therapy and medication adjustments for months and nothing stopped and we had spent the ENTIRE day doing what he wanted, buying what he wanted, and he still did that bumping, elbowing, tripping **** and I.Was.Done. I spoke to my dad, who is aspie but also dealt with teen boys for almost 4 decades in the roughest schools 2 states had to offer. He told me to do what my mother would do and wake the boy up with either a rolling pin or a frying pan close to his head and let him see, very very clearly, that if he EVER pulled that koi again he would regret in an incredibly painful way. It worked for about 2 yrs. Then he started "just" headbutting me into things. the "just" comes from husband, who did not understand why having my 14yo son headbutt me so bad I had bruises front and back for weeks was a "big deal" enough to call the cops on him and refuse to live wiht him. YOU have to make a show of strength. So does husband. You must be UNITED. I know what I did sounds barbaric. I know many will NOT agree iwth it. I did not hit wiz, I showed that I COULD hit him if he took his koi any further. His medications were stable or as stable as they could be given he said very little to his docs. If you cannot get this stopped it is going to get really, really, REALLY dangerous for you before too much longer. Esp given his past violence. Stop the World has to be applied to this stuff. [/QUOTE]
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