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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 124551" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Is it normal? </p><p></p><p>Well you tell me what IS normal and we'll have tea. lol. </p><p></p><p>I think Dude used to get like this after therapy because our therapist didn't give an inch. And a lot of what they talked about in therapy Dude couldn't deal with at that time - but when he felt safe in the car with me - katie bar the door. </p><p></p><p>We learned to adjust to fallout, write down the things he fell out about which coincided with the therapists notes from the last session and just not make a big deal about it. If we did - it seemed to undo what the therapist had just uncovered. </p><p></p><p>yes - he was going for a rise - YES he says things to just get you to shush up - and that's when you just say nothing or turn to him and said "Did you say something?" or "OH, (haha) MEEEEE TOOOO." and let it go. </p><p></p><p>The notes I kept were actually a deterrent after a while for difficult child acting out in the car. He knew if he popped off after therapy I was writing down what he said, and the next week giving it to the therapist to deal with AGAIN. once dude figured out that THIS wasn't going to stop - he seemed to be able to internalize that days session a little better. </p><p></p><p>Hugs</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 124551, member: 4964"] Is it normal? Well you tell me what IS normal and we'll have tea. lol. I think Dude used to get like this after therapy because our therapist didn't give an inch. And a lot of what they talked about in therapy Dude couldn't deal with at that time - but when he felt safe in the car with me - katie bar the door. We learned to adjust to fallout, write down the things he fell out about which coincided with the therapists notes from the last session and just not make a big deal about it. If we did - it seemed to undo what the therapist had just uncovered. yes - he was going for a rise - YES he says things to just get you to shush up - and that's when you just say nothing or turn to him and said "Did you say something?" or "OH, (haha) MEEEEE TOOOO." and let it go. The notes I kept were actually a deterrent after a while for difficult child acting out in the car. He knew if he popped off after therapy I was writing down what he said, and the next week giving it to the therapist to deal with AGAIN. once dude figured out that THIS wasn't going to stop - he seemed to be able to internalize that days session a little better. Hugs [/QUOTE]
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