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<blockquote data-quote="Bunny" data-source="post: 523215"><p>Malika, I took no offense. Yes, I do think that difficult child is motivated by jealousy. He feels that easy child gets treated better than he does, and to be honest I can see where he is coming from. difficult child gets into trouble more because of his difficulties. He hits me, he curses at me, he refuses to do even the simplest tasks at times. easy child, on the other hand, has never done any of those things. Yes, easy child whines about having to do certain chores (all kids do, I expect) but not the extent that difficult child does. </p><p></p><p>What difficult child fails to accept is that he brings alot of his troubles on himself. He makes alot of poor choice that result on loss of privledges, and blames everyone else for them. It's always my fault that he got into trouble because if I just gave him everything he wanted he wouldn't have to behave badly and he would not get into trouble. He expects to be treated with the utmost courtesy and respect, and tantrums when he feels that is not being treated right, but he refuses to treat others with the same respect and courtesy that he demands. The idea of "you reap what you sow" is just not something that difficult child gets, and I'm beginning to wonder if he is ever going to get it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Bunny, post: 523215"] Malika, I took no offense. Yes, I do think that difficult child is motivated by jealousy. He feels that easy child gets treated better than he does, and to be honest I can see where he is coming from. difficult child gets into trouble more because of his difficulties. He hits me, he curses at me, he refuses to do even the simplest tasks at times. easy child, on the other hand, has never done any of those things. Yes, easy child whines about having to do certain chores (all kids do, I expect) but not the extent that difficult child does. What difficult child fails to accept is that he brings alot of his troubles on himself. He makes alot of poor choice that result on loss of privledges, and blames everyone else for them. It's always my fault that he got into trouble because if I just gave him everything he wanted he wouldn't have to behave badly and he would not get into trouble. He expects to be treated with the utmost courtesy and respect, and tantrums when he feels that is not being treated right, but he refuses to treat others with the same respect and courtesy that he demands. The idea of "you reap what you sow" is just not something that difficult child gets, and I'm beginning to wonder if he is ever going to get it. [/QUOTE]
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