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difficult child's joblessness is getting to me. Not sure where to go from here
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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 551430" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Gosh,CiV, you hit the nail on the head, I was thinking along those same lines this morning about my own grown up difficult child. I had to stop making comparisons between myself and her and anyone and her. She makes choices that are so beyond my way of thinking and you're absolutely right, when I stopped making those comparisons and concentrated on how I wanted to be treated, it all changed. Thanks for saying all of that. My difficult child just keeps adjusting her life to the lowest level, something I can't even imagine, being the kind of person who strives for a form of excellence. Accepting that was "darn hard" as you put it. Very well said CiV, thank you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 551430, member: 13542"] Gosh,CiV, you hit the nail on the head, I was thinking along those same lines this morning about my own grown up difficult child. I had to stop making comparisons between myself and her and anyone and her. She makes choices that are so beyond my way of thinking and you're absolutely right, when I stopped making those comparisons and concentrated on how I wanted to be treated, it all changed. Thanks for saying all of that. My difficult child just keeps adjusting her life to the lowest level, something I can't even imagine, being the kind of person who strives for a form of excellence. Accepting that was "darn hard" as you put it. Very well said CiV, thank you. [/QUOTE]
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