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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 314430"><p>I would do something like this as well....</p><p></p><p>Provide difficult child your place back home to live (assuming she follows the rules) until she is at her job for a month. Also, offer her the opportunity to see a good counselor.</p><p></p><p>Then help her get an apt. Perhaps pay the down payment. Give her a small allowance for food in terms of a food store gift certificate for awhile (perhaps until her next birthday...you set the date). Tell her she is on her own for the rent, etc and for any extras. It is time for her to start pulling her own weight.</p><p></p><p>I wouldn't worry too much about the boy freeloading.</p><p></p><p>Of course, there is always the problem of her getting evicted if she fights with- the boy and/or has parties.</p><p></p><p>Hmmmm</p><p></p><p>It is a dilemma....but significantly more for her than for you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 314430"] I would do something like this as well.... Provide difficult child your place back home to live (assuming she follows the rules) until she is at her job for a month. Also, offer her the opportunity to see a good counselor. Then help her get an apt. Perhaps pay the down payment. Give her a small allowance for food in terms of a food store gift certificate for awhile (perhaps until her next birthday...you set the date). Tell her she is on her own for the rent, etc and for any extras. It is time for her to start pulling her own weight. I wouldn't worry too much about the boy freeloading. Of course, there is always the problem of her getting evicted if she fights with- the boy and/or has parties. Hmmmm It is a dilemma....but significantly more for her than for you. [/QUOTE]
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