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difficult child's social skills, how on earth is he so uneven
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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 576449" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>MWM: But part of giving a good interview is to read interviewer's non-verbal cues. Often the actual questions are not the greatest (we are talking about the sport reporters after all <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite2" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=";)" />) and he has to get and answer the unasked question, or work his way around it, if it is something he better say nothing about. But noticing implications is very important, if you don't want to sound dufus and that difficult child does well. </p><p></p><p>Also understanding other people's relationships games, pecking order, things like that, requires reading non-verbal social cues. And our culture is not too expressive and we are quite anti-confrontational, which means that we don't usually for example tell when we don't like something someone says. We show it non-verbally and our non-verbal expression is very unobtrusive, many people from other cultures tend to think we don't have any non-verbal communication at all and just stare stupid and don't react at all. And still difficult child gets those very small non-verbal cues well as long as they are not aimed to him. If he can just observe he seems to know everything. He for example always knows the gossips better than anyone, often even before they are gossip.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 576449, member: 14557"] MWM: But part of giving a good interview is to read interviewer's non-verbal cues. Often the actual questions are not the greatest (we are talking about the sport reporters after all :winking:) and he has to get and answer the unasked question, or work his way around it, if it is something he better say nothing about. But noticing implications is very important, if you don't want to sound dufus and that difficult child does well. Also understanding other people's relationships games, pecking order, things like that, requires reading non-verbal social cues. And our culture is not too expressive and we are quite anti-confrontational, which means that we don't usually for example tell when we don't like something someone says. We show it non-verbally and our non-verbal expression is very unobtrusive, many people from other cultures tend to think we don't have any non-verbal communication at all and just stare stupid and don't react at all. And still difficult child gets those very small non-verbal cues well as long as they are not aimed to him. If he can just observe he seems to know everything. He for example always knows the gossips better than anyone, often even before they are gossip. [/QUOTE]
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