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<blockquote data-quote="ML" data-source="post: 237358"><p>You are in the best possible place right now. The hardest part is bringing these ghosts to the light of day. Being part of dysfunctional dynamics in the past (working out of them currently) I have some paricular insights here. Others have said all of this to you so I'm not telling you anything new. But number 1 is taking care of yoursef and detaching from the responsibilties of husband and difficult child. This pattern has gone on a long time but with therapy, practice (and I hope it's ok to say prayer) what feels like a miracle is possible.</p><p></p><p>husband has been going to AA for 4.5 months now and the changes are slowly taking place. I have to keep with alanon though or I tend to get involved with his stuff which is toxic to all of us.</p><p></p><p>A lot of healing needs to take place, for all of you. First step is recognizing the problem which your therapist is helping with. You are THERE. It is exciting to see you at this point and I have hope for you.</p><p></p><p>If you ever want to talk, pm me. Love, ML</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ML, post: 237358"] You are in the best possible place right now. The hardest part is bringing these ghosts to the light of day. Being part of dysfunctional dynamics in the past (working out of them currently) I have some paricular insights here. Others have said all of this to you so I'm not telling you anything new. But number 1 is taking care of yoursef and detaching from the responsibilties of husband and difficult child. This pattern has gone on a long time but with therapy, practice (and I hope it's ok to say prayer) what feels like a miracle is possible. husband has been going to AA for 4.5 months now and the changes are slowly taking place. I have to keep with alanon though or I tend to get involved with his stuff which is toxic to all of us. A lot of healing needs to take place, for all of you. First step is recognizing the problem which your therapist is helping with. You are THERE. It is exciting to see you at this point and I have hope for you. If you ever want to talk, pm me. Love, ML [/QUOTE]
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