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<blockquote data-quote="Gone" data-source="post: 641465"><p>That is EXACTLY like what happens over here..</p><p></p><p>The LOVING family only got him back when it was a ''last resort'' and all other options had ran out when they should have been the FIRST to be considered to give that poor boy some STABILITY</p><p></p><p>So the family messes up the child , then SS mess up the child even FURTHER!!!!!!!!!</p><p></p><p>That is the worry and concern for my little man</p><p></p><p>He is my flesh and blood yet I have no say in what becomes of him , where he goes , who he lives with etc</p><p></p><p>I just yearn for him to have some stability , and your story brought real tears to my eyes as THESE POOR CHILDREN are the ones who SUFFER BOTH at the hands of their parents AND at the hands of social services</p><p></p><p>They go from being messed up to being messed up even more!!!</p><p></p><p>ALL THE WHILE there is a loving , stable fully capable relative waiting patiently in the wings to have her GS happy and secure with her and that wouldn't be straight away I WOULD HAVE A MESSED UP LITTLE BOY ON MY HANDS BY THEN but with patience and love I feel he would heal and recover and be happy again bless his poor little sweet heart! x</p><p></p><p>If she takes him and I walk away from them they will accuse ME of neglect!!</p><p></p><p>I am not allowed to leave him at risk and wouldn't want to , but THEY can leave him at risk , thing is I have to walk away at SOME POINT so they HAVE to step in at some point surely and why not right from the start</p><p></p><p>This is what I am going to ask them to do anyway!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Gone, post: 641465"] That is EXACTLY like what happens over here.. The LOVING family only got him back when it was a ''last resort'' and all other options had ran out when they should have been the FIRST to be considered to give that poor boy some STABILITY So the family messes up the child , then SS mess up the child even FURTHER!!!!!!!!! That is the worry and concern for my little man He is my flesh and blood yet I have no say in what becomes of him , where he goes , who he lives with etc I just yearn for him to have some stability , and your story brought real tears to my eyes as THESE POOR CHILDREN are the ones who SUFFER BOTH at the hands of their parents AND at the hands of social services They go from being messed up to being messed up even more!!! ALL THE WHILE there is a loving , stable fully capable relative waiting patiently in the wings to have her GS happy and secure with her and that wouldn't be straight away I WOULD HAVE A MESSED UP LITTLE BOY ON MY HANDS BY THEN but with patience and love I feel he would heal and recover and be happy again bless his poor little sweet heart! x If she takes him and I walk away from them they will accuse ME of neglect!! I am not allowed to leave him at risk and wouldn't want to , but THEY can leave him at risk , thing is I have to walk away at SOME POINT so they HAVE to step in at some point surely and why not right from the start This is what I am going to ask them to do anyway!!! [/QUOTE]
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