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<blockquote data-quote="katya02" data-source="post: 565009" data-attributes="member: 2884"><p>Yes, one of the red flags the books mentioned was when a new guy is too perfect - seeming to have too much in common when he's really just been listening and reflecting your own interests back to you. The jerk actually did have some common interests but my downfall was simply that he appeared to find me interesting and attractive. How pathetic is that? After all those years, though, his interest (as selfish as it was) woke me up. So there's a tiny shred of silver lining there, anyway.</p><p></p><p>And, idohope - nice to meet you! Wow, your story sounds so familiar! All the major factors - except I had no support from my church when I tried to leave long ago. In fact, I was ostracized and my kids suffered too. </p><p></p><p>I'm so glad you're doing well now. It gives me hope. I'm nervous about the hard conversations that still have to happen with my ex, but I'll do it somehow. This place is such a source of strength. So many strong women here; you inspire me.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="katya02, post: 565009, member: 2884"] Yes, one of the red flags the books mentioned was when a new guy is too perfect - seeming to have too much in common when he's really just been listening and reflecting your own interests back to you. The jerk actually did have some common interests but my downfall was simply that he appeared to find me interesting and attractive. How pathetic is that? After all those years, though, his interest (as selfish as it was) woke me up. So there's a tiny shred of silver lining there, anyway. And, idohope - nice to meet you! Wow, your story sounds so familiar! All the major factors - except I had no support from my church when I tried to leave long ago. In fact, I was ostracized and my kids suffered too. I'm so glad you're doing well now. It gives me hope. I'm nervous about the hard conversations that still have to happen with my ex, but I'll do it somehow. This place is such a source of strength. So many strong women here; you inspire me. [/QUOTE]
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