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Discharge day tomorrow then to shelter and who knows...
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<blockquote data-quote="Night Owl Mama" data-source="post: 694713" data-attributes="member: 20490"><p>And what it really comes down to is, I really don't want him to ever think if he quits Job Corps he can come here. I don't want him to have that as an option in the back of his mind. That is a big fear, that he will let himself blow it because he thinks he has other options when he doesn't. He is really motivated right now but I have seen him do an about face over the smallest setback. His Borderline (BPD) reactivity is going to be a hurdle for him... "this is the best place ever" to "I hate everyone here I'd rather die than stay here" . That's been my experience with other family members with Borderline (BPD) and while I am trying to be positive and hopeful, I know it's a possible outcome. Fear of the shelter and homelessness may be the only thing that makes him push through and not bail (or get kicked out).</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Night Owl Mama, post: 694713, member: 20490"] And what it really comes down to is, I really don't want him to ever think if he quits Job Corps he can come here. I don't want him to have that as an option in the back of his mind. That is a big fear, that he will let himself blow it because he thinks he has other options when he doesn't. He is really motivated right now but I have seen him do an about face over the smallest setback. His Borderline (BPD) reactivity is going to be a hurdle for him... "this is the best place ever" to "I hate everyone here I'd rather die than stay here" . That's been my experience with other family members with Borderline (BPD) and while I am trying to be positive and hopeful, I know it's a possible outcome. Fear of the shelter and homelessness may be the only thing that makes him push through and not bail (or get kicked out). [/QUOTE]
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