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<blockquote data-quote="Nancy" data-source="post: 123432" data-attributes="member: 59"><p>Kathy thanks for sharing, the service sounds lovely and very tasteful. I am not at all against cremation. I'm sorry I made it sound that way. I was against my husband saying he wanted no service just cremate him and be done with it. He knows how sensitive our easy child is and how close she is to us and how it would devastate her not to be able to grieve in a way that would comfort her. For her that means some sort of service where she can be comforted by her faith. </p><p></p><p>I was actually just mentioning that as a precursor to the convo with my Dad and not wanting his daughter's name or her kids in the obit and how uncomfortable that would make it for me and how it would drive an already wedge further deeper between us. I understand many of the reasons for their estrangement but I can't get over that your kids are your kids forever and at some point the anger and vidictiveness should stop, or at least not follow you into the grave.</p><p></p><p>Nancy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nancy, post: 123432, member: 59"] Kathy thanks for sharing, the service sounds lovely and very tasteful. I am not at all against cremation. I'm sorry I made it sound that way. I was against my husband saying he wanted no service just cremate him and be done with it. He knows how sensitive our easy child is and how close she is to us and how it would devastate her not to be able to grieve in a way that would comfort her. For her that means some sort of service where she can be comforted by her faith. I was actually just mentioning that as a precursor to the convo with my Dad and not wanting his daughter's name or her kids in the obit and how uncomfortable that would make it for me and how it would drive an already wedge further deeper between us. I understand many of the reasons for their estrangement but I can't get over that your kids are your kids forever and at some point the anger and vidictiveness should stop, or at least not follow you into the grave. Nancy [/QUOTE]
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