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Wow, I so agree with Donna and the others. I am seeing this with my dtr and her boyfriend. He dumps her and comes back--when does he come back--when he sees that she maybe doesn't need him. When he has control over her again he isn't nice to her and belittles everything she says and does. He twists everything. I asked her just last night how he justifies his actions (such as leaving her to pay rent) and she said he tells her it is her fault. She says nothing she can do pleases him, doesn't matter how hard she tries. I wish he would just get out of her life for good. Whenever she seems to be picking herself back up he comes along to knock her down again. Frustrating!Jane
Wow, I so agree with Donna and the others. I am seeing this with my dtr and her boyfriend. He dumps her and comes back--when does he come back--when he sees that she maybe doesn't need him. When he has control over her again he isn't nice to her and belittles everything she says and does. He twists everything. I asked her just last night how he justifies his actions (such as leaving her to pay rent) and she said he tells her it is her fault. She says nothing she can do pleases him, doesn't matter how hard she tries. I wish he would just get out of her life for good. Whenever she seems to be picking herself back up he comes along to knock her down again. Frustrating!
Jane