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<blockquote data-quote="TPaul" data-source="post: 311031" data-attributes="member: 8055"><p>Dear TerryJ,</p><p>I am fairly new to the board and am not as up to par on some of the conditions that each of our difficult child might be dealing with such as the Aspie that your son has. Though you have in your about sig, that he has some other odd and adhd right. Could he be needing an addition medication or medications to help with some of this possibly?</p><p> </p><p>Also I am not sure from your post if the school where he goes is aware fully of all the conditions and the problems that each carries with it. IF they are not aware I think that you should have a conference with them and lay open about each problem, how it affects the child, and how they can be helpful by being knowledgeable about these conditions to help your son and most likely other students they either have know or will have in the future. </p><p> </p><p>I am just beginning the process of getting Levi's school up to date on his condition as we ourselves learn more. I am working on putting together info packs about the conditions - symptoms - problems that he faces and how we are work with his family first worker, his new psychiatrist.</p><p> </p><p>About the math-science teacher, don't forget that she might well be going through something at home that no one knows about. We all face our personal struggles that many no nothing about. You might try fixing some chocolate chip cookies or something and taking them to her. Tell her that you know that difficult child is a challenge and give her some kind of info on difficult child and say something like, " thank you for doing what you do to teach our children, etc... might just make her lighten up a little on difficult child. And as a PS to the math science teacher being emotional. My 7th grade math teacher, Mrs.Mapp and my algerbra teacher, Mrs Annebel Ray where both grumpy and seemed they should have picked something other than teaching for a career, <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/peaceful.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":peaceful:" title="peaceful :peaceful:" data-shortname=":peaceful:" /></p><p> </p><p>Lastly, <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite2" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=";)" />, I know going on a bit, but it is sunday and I can sit and type without having to worry about getting ready to go somewhere in a short bit, LOL LOL</p><p> </p><p>The video game being taken away, surely will cause a ruckus at first but hopefully if you can get to him that if he does better about doing his school work, he can use the game. You might even have it that each day when he does his work that he is supposed to at home, he can then use the game. Set something up with the school so that you can be informed of knowing what he is supposed to have to work on each day at home. Let him know that if he tries to sneak around and say he does not have homework and really did, then grounded from the games and other activities for a week will be the punishement. Something like this, if need be keep him grounded from seeing friends or doing another activity, TV, maybe if he does not do as he needs too.</p><p> </p><p>Lots of soft thoughts, kinds and gently hugs and a big infusion of encouragement sent to you and your hubby,</p><p> </p><p>T. Paul</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TPaul, post: 311031, member: 8055"] Dear TerryJ, I am fairly new to the board and am not as up to par on some of the conditions that each of our difficult child might be dealing with such as the Aspie that your son has. Though you have in your about sig, that he has some other odd and adhd right. Could he be needing an addition medication or medications to help with some of this possibly? Also I am not sure from your post if the school where he goes is aware fully of all the conditions and the problems that each carries with it. IF they are not aware I think that you should have a conference with them and lay open about each problem, how it affects the child, and how they can be helpful by being knowledgeable about these conditions to help your son and most likely other students they either have know or will have in the future. I am just beginning the process of getting Levi's school up to date on his condition as we ourselves learn more. I am working on putting together info packs about the conditions - symptoms - problems that he faces and how we are work with his family first worker, his new psychiatrist. About the math-science teacher, don't forget that she might well be going through something at home that no one knows about. We all face our personal struggles that many no nothing about. You might try fixing some chocolate chip cookies or something and taking them to her. Tell her that you know that difficult child is a challenge and give her some kind of info on difficult child and say something like, " thank you for doing what you do to teach our children, etc... might just make her lighten up a little on difficult child. And as a PS to the math science teacher being emotional. My 7th grade math teacher, Mrs.Mapp and my algerbra teacher, Mrs Annebel Ray where both grumpy and seemed they should have picked something other than teaching for a career, :peaceful: Lastly, :winking:, I know going on a bit, but it is sunday and I can sit and type without having to worry about getting ready to go somewhere in a short bit, LOL LOL The video game being taken away, surely will cause a ruckus at first but hopefully if you can get to him that if he does better about doing his school work, he can use the game. You might even have it that each day when he does his work that he is supposed to at home, he can then use the game. Set something up with the school so that you can be informed of knowing what he is supposed to have to work on each day at home. Let him know that if he tries to sneak around and say he does not have homework and really did, then grounded from the games and other activities for a week will be the punishement. Something like this, if need be keep him grounded from seeing friends or doing another activity, TV, maybe if he does not do as he needs too. Lots of soft thoughts, kinds and gently hugs and a big infusion of encouragement sent to you and your hubby, T. Paul [/QUOTE]
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