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<blockquote data-quote="Liahona" data-source="post: 535417"><p>I used to feel bad about disciplining because of their autism. Then I talked with some of the autism specialist around here. They pointed out that autistic kids need very strict rules about what happens when they do a behavior. Its the only way my kids learn. difficult child 1 especially doesn't get other peoples feelings. He needs the if I hurt my sister then I get this consequence. If anyone waffles on the rules his behavior escalates very fast as he is trying to find out where the boundaries are. </p><p></p><p>I've also had to been very dead pan as I've listened to some horrific things come out of difficult child 1's mouth. </p><p></p><p>You sound like you need a break. What would happen if you took easy child, and the cord to his game system and left the house for a few hours every time he starts to be disrespectful? It is the natural consequence of his behavior. People aren't going to want to be around him. With difficult child 1 I send him to his room to cool off if I think he might be escalating. </p><p></p><p>Until he wants to control his behavior I don't think you're going to find out how much of it is out of his control. </p><p></p><p>Welcome.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Liahona, post: 535417"] I used to feel bad about disciplining because of their autism. Then I talked with some of the autism specialist around here. They pointed out that autistic kids need very strict rules about what happens when they do a behavior. Its the only way my kids learn. difficult child 1 especially doesn't get other peoples feelings. He needs the if I hurt my sister then I get this consequence. If anyone waffles on the rules his behavior escalates very fast as he is trying to find out where the boundaries are. I've also had to been very dead pan as I've listened to some horrific things come out of difficult child 1's mouth. You sound like you need a break. What would happen if you took easy child, and the cord to his game system and left the house for a few hours every time he starts to be disrespectful? It is the natural consequence of his behavior. People aren't going to want to be around him. With difficult child 1 I send him to his room to cool off if I think he might be escalating. Until he wants to control his behavior I don't think you're going to find out how much of it is out of his control. Welcome. [/QUOTE]
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