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<blockquote data-quote="Liahona" data-source="post: 535591"><p>Have you read The Explosive Child by Ross Greene? He describes a basket system where behaviors are put in different baskets depending on what you are wanting to work on. If you divide up the disrespectful behaviors into these baskets then you are still consistent but you don't have to work on everything at once. </p><p></p><p>The different baskets are A, B, and C. Basket A is something you will not ever tolerate. For us it is safety related. Basket B is what you are working on. Basket C is what you are willing to ignore/let go for right now. It really helps when there are so many behaviors you are overwhelmed. </p><p></p><p>He also describes a collaborative problems solving approach that works for a lot of kids with issues, but doesn't work with my difficult child 1 very well.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Liahona, post: 535591"] Have you read The Explosive Child by Ross Greene? He describes a basket system where behaviors are put in different baskets depending on what you are wanting to work on. If you divide up the disrespectful behaviors into these baskets then you are still consistent but you don't have to work on everything at once. The different baskets are A, B, and C. Basket A is something you will not ever tolerate. For us it is safety related. Basket B is what you are working on. Basket C is what you are willing to ignore/let go for right now. It really helps when there are so many behaviors you are overwhelmed. He also describes a collaborative problems solving approach that works for a lot of kids with issues, but doesn't work with my difficult child 1 very well. [/QUOTE]
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