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<blockquote data-quote="josie76" data-source="post: 535663" data-attributes="member: 14775"><p>Buddy - i have spent the last 3 hours reading up on Dr Ross Greene - what a refreshing new approach to dealing with challenging behaviour! I am so impressed. Have read through his idea of Collaborative Problem Solving and i have never heard something make so much sense in terms of how i want to approach my parenting - i have always been very hesitant to 'punish' my son for all of his behaviours as i really get the feeling that a lot of it is just not properly within his control - but due to him presenting as very high functioning it can be difficult to see it as a direct result of his conditions - this approach of teaching skills is definitely something i feel has never been properly presented in all of the self help literature ive read, and it really has been a lot!</p><p></p><p>I love that his ideas make so much sense, arent a quick fix, and really attempt to develop that child as opposed to just punishing or rewarding - will definitely be buying both of his books and after this morning i now have pages of notes on how to apply the technique! </p><p></p><p>DDD - my son behaves a little better at school than home and was a target for bullies in his last school where he had no support - now he is in a Communication Support Base so there are no opportunities for him to be bullied as he is always with an adult and gets to go to the canteen before the other kids arrive so he doesnt have that problem. In his previous school he was bullied a lot but at the time was unable to tell me - he would come home with black pen on his face, or covered in mud and wouldnt tell me what happened. Apparently he was being chased around the school and physically hurt and picked on. Back then i feel he was less aggressive though and now he seems more provocative towards me, not sure why that is yet. </p><p></p><p>He acts the same way with my parents as he does with me and aside from that he isnt really anywhere else and i dont currently have any respite at all, i am at home with him every night so i guess im just getting all of the behaviours, good and bad. </p><p></p><p>This forum has certainly been a bit of a God send for me right now - very supportive, lots of activity and information i have never came across before so for that alone i am very very grateful! Cant believe how much more positive i feel! </p><p></p><p>Im not sure if there are any threads on applying Dr Greenes strategies but that would be something i think would be very useful - i can see how positive his approach is but would be so helpful to have support from other parents when carrying it out?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="josie76, post: 535663, member: 14775"] Buddy - i have spent the last 3 hours reading up on Dr Ross Greene - what a refreshing new approach to dealing with challenging behaviour! I am so impressed. Have read through his idea of Collaborative Problem Solving and i have never heard something make so much sense in terms of how i want to approach my parenting - i have always been very hesitant to 'punish' my son for all of his behaviours as i really get the feeling that a lot of it is just not properly within his control - but due to him presenting as very high functioning it can be difficult to see it as a direct result of his conditions - this approach of teaching skills is definitely something i feel has never been properly presented in all of the self help literature ive read, and it really has been a lot! I love that his ideas make so much sense, arent a quick fix, and really attempt to develop that child as opposed to just punishing or rewarding - will definitely be buying both of his books and after this morning i now have pages of notes on how to apply the technique! DDD - my son behaves a little better at school than home and was a target for bullies in his last school where he had no support - now he is in a Communication Support Base so there are no opportunities for him to be bullied as he is always with an adult and gets to go to the canteen before the other kids arrive so he doesnt have that problem. In his previous school he was bullied a lot but at the time was unable to tell me - he would come home with black pen on his face, or covered in mud and wouldnt tell me what happened. Apparently he was being chased around the school and physically hurt and picked on. Back then i feel he was less aggressive though and now he seems more provocative towards me, not sure why that is yet. He acts the same way with my parents as he does with me and aside from that he isnt really anywhere else and i dont currently have any respite at all, i am at home with him every night so i guess im just getting all of the behaviours, good and bad. This forum has certainly been a bit of a God send for me right now - very supportive, lots of activity and information i have never came across before so for that alone i am very very grateful! Cant believe how much more positive i feel! Im not sure if there are any threads on applying Dr Greenes strategies but that would be something i think would be very useful - i can see how positive his approach is but would be so helpful to have support from other parents when carrying it out? [/QUOTE]
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