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Do difficult child's ever respect the hands that feed them?
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<blockquote data-quote="Wakegirl" data-source="post: 585358" data-attributes="member: 15912"><p>Well, it happened just as I suspected. As soon as I walked in from work, he hit me up for a favor. He wanted me to go buy him a can of dip. My reply? "No, I'm not gonna do it! I'm gonna act like a total ass like you did this morning". (I don't like buying him dip, but I figured I would allow his one vise as he detox's from his spice habit) He turned around and murmured "good God", and walked out the door to go somewhere with his girlfriend. And I'm left sitting here feeling like I'm the bad guy. Ugh. I hate this feeling. I hate how I let him control my moods. And I literally hate feeling so uneasy when he's here. I hate the the unhappy person I turn into when I walk in the door, not knowing if he's in a good mood or a bad mood. And when he's in a good mood, I still have a hard time being my normal jolly self around him. </p><p></p><p>For the record, I highly dislike the word "hate". It's such a strong word. But it's the only word that accurately describes how I feel about this whole difficult child situation. </p><p></p><p>P.S. In the living arrangement contract that I wrote for him, I specified him doing his own laundry. He did do a load today. But they're still sitting in the washing machine. Which puts a damper on me doing any laundry. I have the right mind to put the wet clothes in a garbage bag and take them upstairs to his bedroom. I'm not playing this game. Wait. I'm SICK of playing this game!!!!!!!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Wakegirl, post: 585358, member: 15912"] Well, it happened just as I suspected. As soon as I walked in from work, he hit me up for a favor. He wanted me to go buy him a can of dip. My reply? "No, I'm not gonna do it! I'm gonna act like a total ass like you did this morning". (I don't like buying him dip, but I figured I would allow his one vise as he detox's from his spice habit) He turned around and murmured "good God", and walked out the door to go somewhere with his girlfriend. And I'm left sitting here feeling like I'm the bad guy. Ugh. I hate this feeling. I hate how I let him control my moods. And I literally hate feeling so uneasy when he's here. I hate the the unhappy person I turn into when I walk in the door, not knowing if he's in a good mood or a bad mood. And when he's in a good mood, I still have a hard time being my normal jolly self around him. For the record, I highly dislike the word "hate". It's such a strong word. But it's the only word that accurately describes how I feel about this whole difficult child situation. P.S. In the living arrangement contract that I wrote for him, I specified him doing his own laundry. He did do a load today. But they're still sitting in the washing machine. Which puts a damper on me doing any laundry. I have the right mind to put the wet clothes in a garbage bag and take them upstairs to his bedroom. I'm not playing this game. Wait. I'm SICK of playing this game!!!!!!!!! [/QUOTE]
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