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Do others feel this way with other children too?
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 752917" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>You are doing all you can under the circumstances. Your daughter has always been a problem, like Kay and no amount of love and attention would have been enough. Like Kay. </p><p></p><p>Enjoy your other two kids and grands. I do that now. Kay no longer is the elephant in the room. I will never put her first again. My other loved ones want me in their lives. I in no way want anyone in my life who is going to hurt me. I did that long enough. It serves NOBODY, our kid included. They learn how to abuse. That is all they gain </p><p></p><p>in my opinion you are behaving as I would under the same circumstances. See Difficult Sister if you must, but leave me out of it because it hurts. Period if that.is what is best for you, do it. You don't need to know about her. You don't need to be told if the others are with her.</p><p></p><p>I would probably also tell others not to inform me of anything she says or does and would not check her social media. Try to move on. It's easier to do if you don't pour salt into your own wound.</p><p></p><p>Have a good day and see maybe how many.podirive things you can do for you. Nobody else, even beloved children, should control our happiness. We are the ones to control it. Or not. But if somebody else controls us, we are their slave.</p><p></p><p>Been that slave. Have the tee shirt. Much more relaxed and happy now.</p><p></p><p>Blessings!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 752917, member: 23706"] You are doing all you can under the circumstances. Your daughter has always been a problem, like Kay and no amount of love and attention would have been enough. Like Kay. Enjoy your other two kids and grands. I do that now. Kay no longer is the elephant in the room. I will never put her first again. My other loved ones want me in their lives. I in no way want anyone in my life who is going to hurt me. I did that long enough. It serves NOBODY, our kid included. They learn how to abuse. That is all they gain in my opinion you are behaving as I would under the same circumstances. See Difficult Sister if you must, but leave me out of it because it hurts. Period if that.is what is best for you, do it. You don't need to know about her. You don't need to be told if the others are with her. I would probably also tell others not to inform me of anything she says or does and would not check her social media. Try to move on. It's easier to do if you don't pour salt into your own wound. Have a good day and see maybe how many.podirive things you can do for you. Nobody else, even beloved children, should control our happiness. We are the ones to control it. Or not. But if somebody else controls us, we are their slave. Been that slave. Have the tee shirt. Much more relaxed and happy now. Blessings! [/QUOTE]
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