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Do others feel this way with other children too?
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 752937" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>Louise.....I have the same exact dynamic going on.in my house that you do except that my estranged daughter has been so horrible to the other kids that they want nothing to do with her. I am sure that, just like Kay, you didn't do anything wrong to your middle daughter. Some people are just victims in their own heads. Most kids on this forum were treated very well yet cry victim.</p><p></p><p>You and I have a few kids and one only is a problem. Not everyone has this going on. I get that your kids are trying to get along with both of you, not estranging you. And I get that the middle daughter is looking to blame her problems on you.</p><p></p><p>I don't think this has anything to do with what we did or didn't do. I think this about our kids and the mess in their heads that only therapy will fix. But of course they won't so they remain a mess. I won't talk to Kay about her grievances any more. This is for a therapist to handle and sort out. We can't solve them.</p><p></p><p>I think your youngest was trying not to hurt you by not telling you why she needed a sitter. It was selfish too. A free sitter. A white lie. Not evil. I can't imagine this as worth making a mountain out of.</p><p></p><p>I would never make this bigger than it is.ni see it as no big deal. I look for peace, not trouble. Our nice kids are human and like us they are not perfect. </p><p></p><p>Hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 752937, member: 23706"] Louise.....I have the same exact dynamic going on.in my house that you do except that my estranged daughter has been so horrible to the other kids that they want nothing to do with her. I am sure that, just like Kay, you didn't do anything wrong to your middle daughter. Some people are just victims in their own heads. Most kids on this forum were treated very well yet cry victim. You and I have a few kids and one only is a problem. Not everyone has this going on. I get that your kids are trying to get along with both of you, not estranging you. And I get that the middle daughter is looking to blame her problems on you. I don't think this has anything to do with what we did or didn't do. I think this about our kids and the mess in their heads that only therapy will fix. But of course they won't so they remain a mess. I won't talk to Kay about her grievances any more. This is for a therapist to handle and sort out. We can't solve them. I think your youngest was trying not to hurt you by not telling you why she needed a sitter. It was selfish too. A free sitter. A white lie. Not evil. I can't imagine this as worth making a mountain out of. I would never make this bigger than it is.ni see it as no big deal. I look for peace, not trouble. Our nice kids are human and like us they are not perfect. Hugs. [/QUOTE]
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