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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 618246" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>No, I don't agree. I think it's your therapist's opinion and he is voiding difficult child's violence. in my opinion only...maybe others will disagree...your difficult child will be absolutely nothing if he doesn't get better. That is much more important than a college degree that he can get later on once he is well. He probably won't get that degree anyway and, as sick as he is, he won't be able to hold a job at McD's if he doesn't improve his mental health...forget about the high level jobs. As for what you promised him, he and you both know that you meant IF he were trying hard in life you would do these things for him. Not after he assaulted you. That's crossing a line.</p><p></p><p>Therapists bring their own opinions to the table, but in my opinion the best ones are able to sit back and not tell us what to do, but let us come to our own conclusions. I personally would never pay my kids $1 to see me. If they needed to be paid to spend time with me then I would rather pass.</p><p></p><p>I've seen a few therapists in my day and I'd dump this one and find a better one.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 618246, member: 1550"] No, I don't agree. I think it's your therapist's opinion and he is voiding difficult child's violence. in my opinion only...maybe others will disagree...your difficult child will be absolutely nothing if he doesn't get better. That is much more important than a college degree that he can get later on once he is well. He probably won't get that degree anyway and, as sick as he is, he won't be able to hold a job at McD's if he doesn't improve his mental health...forget about the high level jobs. As for what you promised him, he and you both know that you meant IF he were trying hard in life you would do these things for him. Not after he assaulted you. That's crossing a line. Therapists bring their own opinions to the table, but in my opinion the best ones are able to sit back and not tell us what to do, but let us come to our own conclusions. I personally would never pay my kids $1 to see me. If they needed to be paid to spend time with me then I would rather pass. I've seen a few therapists in my day and I'd dump this one and find a better one. [/QUOTE]
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