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<blockquote data-quote="BackintheSaddle" data-source="post: 618261" data-attributes="member: 17503"><p>I knew you guys would help me think this through!...and RE is correct, I agree with my husband and would feel awful if I felt the only way my son would see me is if I paid him money...that's why I wasn't willing to see him this week because I want him to WANT to have a relationship with me and the first step would be to show his remorse for having hurt and scared me...he still hasn't done that....the psychiatrist referred me to this PhD psychologist because he's got apparently a strong reputation for specializing in helping families through the transition period of kids to adulthood...and he's a specialist in ODD which, if that's true, his 'direction' today really bothered me because it was as though he was ignoring all the abuse we'd been through...like DDD said, he was focused on how to make me feel better about all this but I'd rather NOT pay difficult child to see me and not see him at all than have the 'used' feeling of paying him to meet and knowing that all along he's not a bit sorry for how much he's hurt me...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BackintheSaddle, post: 618261, member: 17503"] I knew you guys would help me think this through!...and RE is correct, I agree with my husband and would feel awful if I felt the only way my son would see me is if I paid him money...that's why I wasn't willing to see him this week because I want him to WANT to have a relationship with me and the first step would be to show his remorse for having hurt and scared me...he still hasn't done that....the psychiatrist referred me to this PhD psychologist because he's got apparently a strong reputation for specializing in helping families through the transition period of kids to adulthood...and he's a specialist in ODD which, if that's true, his 'direction' today really bothered me because it was as though he was ignoring all the abuse we'd been through...like DDD said, he was focused on how to make me feel better about all this but I'd rather NOT pay difficult child to see me and not see him at all than have the 'used' feeling of paying him to meet and knowing that all along he's not a bit sorry for how much he's hurt me... [/QUOTE]
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