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Do you ever get tired of being blamed???
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<blockquote data-quote="graceupongrace" data-source="post: 281764" data-attributes="member: 7371"><p>Yes!!! Here's what I'm tired of:</p><p></p><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Outright blame -- and suggestions of discipline measures that work wonderfully with a easy child and not at all with a difficult child.</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Implied blame -- "He needs to learn not to do (insert bad behavior here), don't you think?" As if it never occurred to you to try to correct it.</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Off-base comments -- "You and difficult child just need to learn to get along." As if it's a personality conflict.</li> </ul><p>And you're right, ML, we can be our own toughest critics. Maybe that's our attempt to make sense of a situation that doesn't make sense and probably never will.</p><p></p><p>MWM, thanks for the show of strength.</p><p></p><p>(((Hugs))) to all.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="graceupongrace, post: 281764, member: 7371"] Yes!!! Here's what I'm tired of: [LIST] [*]Outright blame -- and suggestions of discipline measures that work wonderfully with a easy child and not at all with a difficult child. [*]Implied blame -- "He needs to learn not to do (insert bad behavior here), don't you think?" As if it never occurred to you to try to correct it. [*]Off-base comments -- "You and difficult child just need to learn to get along." As if it's a personality conflict. [/LIST] And you're right, ML, we can be our own toughest critics. Maybe that's our attempt to make sense of a situation that doesn't make sense and probably never will. MWM, thanks for the show of strength. (((Hugs))) to all. [/QUOTE]
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