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Do You Think This is Over-Stepping ?
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 466854" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Sorry, but I completely disagree with the advice to let her have it. Not under ANY circumstances. IF difficult child wants to show she is responsible, she can do her chores, abide by ALL of the house rules, act like a decent person to her family and get good grades. Can't do those things? No bank account that is just hers.</p><p></p><p>The behavior therapist needs to be replaced with one who has some common sense and the bank needs to be notified that you will NOT permit the account and if they do allow it then THEY are fully liable if difficult child uses that account to run away. PERIOD. Oh, therapist is also liable if she takes off.</p><p></p><p>This is so far out of bounds that you need to file a complaint. Esp if it is true she had difficult child already talk to the bank before she had your approval. There is NO WAY that your difficult child shoudl have ANY funds that you don't have control over. NOT with the risk of running and other ways of harming herself and her family. </p><p></p><p>The fact that she came back to you after you said NO very clearly AND gave her the reasons means she is NEVER going to be the right person to treat your daughter and your family. NEVER. </p><p></p><p>Get rid of the therapist.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 466854, member: 1233"] Sorry, but I completely disagree with the advice to let her have it. Not under ANY circumstances. IF difficult child wants to show she is responsible, she can do her chores, abide by ALL of the house rules, act like a decent person to her family and get good grades. Can't do those things? No bank account that is just hers. The behavior therapist needs to be replaced with one who has some common sense and the bank needs to be notified that you will NOT permit the account and if they do allow it then THEY are fully liable if difficult child uses that account to run away. PERIOD. Oh, therapist is also liable if she takes off. This is so far out of bounds that you need to file a complaint. Esp if it is true she had difficult child already talk to the bank before she had your approval. There is NO WAY that your difficult child shoudl have ANY funds that you don't have control over. NOT with the risk of running and other ways of harming herself and her family. The fact that she came back to you after you said NO very clearly AND gave her the reasons means she is NEVER going to be the right person to treat your daughter and your family. NEVER. Get rid of the therapist. [/QUOTE]
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