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<blockquote data-quote="keista" data-source="post: 466977" data-attributes="member: 11965"><p>Not sure what I'd be angrier at, the bank thing or the candle/incense thing. CLEARLY this woman is doing nothing more than undermining your authority. not sure how that is supposed to "help" except maybe "help" difficult child feel better about defying her parents.</p><p></p><p>Can you fire this BA?</p><p></p><p>I'm gonna repeat myself because I do feel so strongly about the bank issue. Better for her to learn about banking and financial responsibility with overdraft fees and all when all she is doing is spending her money on "stuff". She overdrafts, that's less money she has for "stuff". Better now than to struggle and learn this when she has to pay bills, and a single overdraft becomes several overdrafts, and then she doesn't have enough for her basics. </p><p></p><p>AND to use some twisted parental thinking, <strong>IF</strong> she manages to save enough money to run, at least you know she is capable of setting a goal and saving towards it (easy child behavior). I know it would be small comfort if it did happen, but from what you've said, it probably wouldn't.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="keista, post: 466977, member: 11965"] Not sure what I'd be angrier at, the bank thing or the candle/incense thing. CLEARLY this woman is doing nothing more than undermining your authority. not sure how that is supposed to "help" except maybe "help" difficult child feel better about defying her parents. Can you fire this BA? I'm gonna repeat myself because I do feel so strongly about the bank issue. Better for her to learn about banking and financial responsibility with overdraft fees and all when all she is doing is spending her money on "stuff". She overdrafts, that's less money she has for "stuff". Better now than to struggle and learn this when she has to pay bills, and a single overdraft becomes several overdrafts, and then she doesn't have enough for her basics. AND to use some twisted parental thinking, [B]IF[/B] she manages to save enough money to run, at least you know she is capable of setting a goal and saving towards it (easy child behavior). I know it would be small comfort if it did happen, but from what you've said, it probably wouldn't. [/QUOTE]
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