Thanks for the answers and especially the links. I'd be happy for more feedback.
Marg, my daughter will want to do what her peers do at eighteen. I guess I have to go one day at a time, but sometimes I get scared. She is bright and mature...she is going to want to go to college (of some sort) and get a job. Maybe she will have to go to a two year college first and take a few classes. No rush. She needs to be around other kids. If you look up the word "sociable" you'll see her face. She is always always always out with various friends and won't do well if they all move on and she doesn't.
