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<blockquote data-quote="nvts" data-source="post: 274112" data-attributes="member: 3814"><p>Heartsick! So sorry to hear what you're going through. If you work for the state, you most likely have coverage for a neuropsychologist.</p><p> </p><p>Listen: guilt is a useless emotion unless you're using it on someone else to get what you want! <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite2" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=";)" /></p><p> </p><p>Everyone hates their kid every once and a while. Even "non-difficult child" parents. It's human nature if you think about it. Kids are a mish-mash of both sets of chromosomes - why wouldn't they also include some of the things about both parents that we hate? Relax! You're in VERY common company here. There are days I can't stand to hear them talk - other times I LOVE to have them around. Don't let society decide you're a mean mom!</p><p> </p><p>For what it's worth - have her examined - I know in another post you said that you didn't think you could take it, but let me ask you this: Would you rather sit and wonder if you stink as a parent or would you rather find out that there's something chemically, developmentally or physical that could be causing this? If you choose #2, you can get help. If you choose #1, you're stuck in this circle of beating yourself up.</p><p> </p><p>Please come often and post whenever you need! We're here for each other and no one defines you as an Ogre for feeling what you feel - they're just feelings - nothing more - nothing less!</p><p> </p><p>Welcome to a great crowd! They helped me tremendously here!</p><p> </p><p>Beth</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="nvts, post: 274112, member: 3814"] Heartsick! So sorry to hear what you're going through. If you work for the state, you most likely have coverage for a neuropsychologist. Listen: guilt is a useless emotion unless you're using it on someone else to get what you want! :winking: Everyone hates their kid every once and a while. Even "non-difficult child" parents. It's human nature if you think about it. Kids are a mish-mash of both sets of chromosomes - why wouldn't they also include some of the things about both parents that we hate? Relax! You're in VERY common company here. There are days I can't stand to hear them talk - other times I LOVE to have them around. Don't let society decide you're a mean mom! For what it's worth - have her examined - I know in another post you said that you didn't think you could take it, but let me ask you this: Would you rather sit and wonder if you stink as a parent or would you rather find out that there's something chemically, developmentally or physical that could be causing this? If you choose #2, you can get help. If you choose #1, you're stuck in this circle of beating yourself up. Please come often and post whenever you need! We're here for each other and no one defines you as an Ogre for feeling what you feel - they're just feelings - nothing more - nothing less! Welcome to a great crowd! They helped me tremendously here! Beth [/QUOTE]
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