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Don't know if this is a bit Occupational Therapist (OT)....therapy for easy child?
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<blockquote data-quote="Allan-Matlem" data-source="post: 448355" data-attributes="member: 10"><p>hi,</p><p></p><p>you know your husband , it would take quite a pevert and disturbed person to act in the way your 3.5 is describing</p><p></p><p>what I think 3.5 yo is saying - my dad did or I feel uncomfortable around him and it feels like being pee'ed in the face. it seems he is using this description of things in different circumstances </p><p></p><p>I don't think you need therapy but you can try and collaborate with him to get to the bottom of things. i would not talk about the words he is using , but rather start out with yes/no questions about his interactions between him and you/dad/brother - does he like , then expand to what do you like /dislike , can you tell me more etc - how things should play out when he feels understood is to say and that feels like somebody peeing your face . My gut feeling is not to go as far as mentioning the words but trying to then problem solve and address his concerns I think you should encourage husband to have more one on one time with 3.5 without you around - fun time connecting. Also important to relax the atmosphere at home and deal with problems not in the moment so there is less conflict.</p><p></p><p>Allan</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Allan-Matlem, post: 448355, member: 10"] hi, you know your husband , it would take quite a pevert and disturbed person to act in the way your 3.5 is describing what I think 3.5 yo is saying - my dad did or I feel uncomfortable around him and it feels like being pee'ed in the face. it seems he is using this description of things in different circumstances I don't think you need therapy but you can try and collaborate with him to get to the bottom of things. i would not talk about the words he is using , but rather start out with yes/no questions about his interactions between him and you/dad/brother - does he like , then expand to what do you like /dislike , can you tell me more etc - how things should play out when he feels understood is to say and that feels like somebody peeing your face . My gut feeling is not to go as far as mentioning the words but trying to then problem solve and address his concerns I think you should encourage husband to have more one on one time with 3.5 without you around - fun time connecting. Also important to relax the atmosphere at home and deal with problems not in the moment so there is less conflict. Allan [/QUOTE]
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