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Don't know what to call this feeling. Indifference maybe?
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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 426717" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Jody</p><p></p><p>Sorry. Had to LOL over easy child daughter. She has no children yet. She has no clue about parenting, no matter what she has learned. Skills are good and if she's learned some new ways of doing things, then good for her. But until she has that child to be responsible for, she has no clue. </p><p></p><p>As for the God will fix it deal.........I have that with my mom to the extreme, seriously. It gets old fast. Now? I tell her God makes special people to teach others valuable lessons. If he instantly healed all those special people, no lessons would be learned. I haven't heard the If you just ask God thing for a while...........I will eventually, because she can't let that go. </p><p></p><p>difficult child? I'd have told her that anything she wanted to make for mother's day would have been special. What made it <strong>not special</strong> was her deteriorating into nastiness the moment she came to a bump in her plans. As for the she can't do anything right? Sorry sweetie, world doesn't revolve around you. husband used to like to use that one, all the time. ugh He stopped once I made it clear it wasn't gonna work with me. Passive aggressive defensiveness. Lash out at you before you can lash out at her. So it's your fault.........Know what I mean??</p><p></p><p>As for the relationship with easy child...........you're Mom. Tell her how you're feeling and clear the air to remove the tension. I've had a few times like this with easy child.......always turned out it was because she just didn't feel like she knew what to say with all the difficult child drama going on. She didn't know how to make me feel better and she certainly didn't want to say anything to make me feel worse. We worked through that we mostly don't discuss gfgdom.......we keep things pretty normal stuff. I need that to help keep me sane with difficult child drama is rampant.........and she needs that too keep close with her mom.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 426717, member: 84"] Jody Sorry. Had to LOL over easy child daughter. She has no children yet. She has no clue about parenting, no matter what she has learned. Skills are good and if she's learned some new ways of doing things, then good for her. But until she has that child to be responsible for, she has no clue. As for the God will fix it deal.........I have that with my mom to the extreme, seriously. It gets old fast. Now? I tell her God makes special people to teach others valuable lessons. If he instantly healed all those special people, no lessons would be learned. I haven't heard the If you just ask God thing for a while...........I will eventually, because she can't let that go. difficult child? I'd have told her that anything she wanted to make for mother's day would have been special. What made it [B]not special[/B] was her deteriorating into nastiness the moment she came to a bump in her plans. As for the she can't do anything right? Sorry sweetie, world doesn't revolve around you. husband used to like to use that one, all the time. ugh He stopped once I made it clear it wasn't gonna work with me. Passive aggressive defensiveness. Lash out at you before you can lash out at her. So it's your fault.........Know what I mean?? As for the relationship with easy child...........you're Mom. Tell her how you're feeling and clear the air to remove the tension. I've had a few times like this with easy child.......always turned out it was because she just didn't feel like she knew what to say with all the difficult child drama going on. She didn't know how to make me feel better and she certainly didn't want to say anything to make me feel worse. We worked through that we mostly don't discuss gfgdom.......we keep things pretty normal stuff. I need that to help keep me sane with difficult child drama is rampant.........and she needs that too keep close with her mom. [/QUOTE]
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