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<blockquote data-quote="BloodiedButUnbowed" data-source="post: 741352" data-attributes="member: 13303"><p>Thanks for the great advice and well wishes.</p><p></p><p>YS has gone dark again, W texts and calls him, and he doesn't pick up or respond to her texts. So clearly his request for our address was not motivated by the desire for a renewed relationship with her.</p><p></p><p>We have not heard from him or seen him. I have been alert for unfamiliar vehicles on our street and have not seen any.</p><p></p><p>Copa, you make a valid point about the level of violence and aggression that both DS and YS are capable of displatying. W doesn't accept that her children are dangerous. I hope this does not prove to be a fatal mistake on her part.</p><p></p><p>I have already decided that I am not going to involve myself in either of my stepsons' lives. I will, however, take necessary steps to protect myself from them (and W, if W is willing). This certainly means not being in their company. W will have to decide for herself what boundaries she needs.</p><p></p><p>We did hear from his school therapist who says that YS denied any harmful intent. To the best of my knowledge W has not heard from YS' outside therapist at this point.</p><p></p><p>I don't know that YS would admit to any plans.</p><p></p><p>It occurred to me that perhaps YS asked for the address on behalf of his father, possibly so father can serve W with some kind of legal paperwork (what kind I do not know). Maybe he wants to extend child support for DS who has now surpassed his 18th birthday. W is no longer paying CS for him. Perhaps father needs the money and is going to try to extract more from W.</p><p></p><p>I will continue to keep you posted.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BloodiedButUnbowed, post: 741352, member: 13303"] Thanks for the great advice and well wishes. YS has gone dark again, W texts and calls him, and he doesn't pick up or respond to her texts. So clearly his request for our address was not motivated by the desire for a renewed relationship with her. We have not heard from him or seen him. I have been alert for unfamiliar vehicles on our street and have not seen any. Copa, you make a valid point about the level of violence and aggression that both DS and YS are capable of displatying. W doesn't accept that her children are dangerous. I hope this does not prove to be a fatal mistake on her part. I have already decided that I am not going to involve myself in either of my stepsons' lives. I will, however, take necessary steps to protect myself from them (and W, if W is willing). This certainly means not being in their company. W will have to decide for herself what boundaries she needs. We did hear from his school therapist who says that YS denied any harmful intent. To the best of my knowledge W has not heard from YS' outside therapist at this point. I don't know that YS would admit to any plans. It occurred to me that perhaps YS asked for the address on behalf of his father, possibly so father can serve W with some kind of legal paperwork (what kind I do not know). Maybe he wants to extend child support for DS who has now surpassed his 18th birthday. W is no longer paying CS for him. Perhaps father needs the money and is going to try to extract more from W. I will continue to keep you posted. [/QUOTE]
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