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Doubts and questions about my course.
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 712420" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>You guys are answering with one voice. Let me see if I understand.</p><p></p><p>Lesson 1: Pick my fights. Everybody needs and seeks a sense of autonomy. He can either exert it positively and constructively, or as resistance, by dragging his feet. Don't do the work for him by micro-managing and over-controlling. He will resist. And he will not own his efforts.</p><p></p><p>Lesson 2: Minimalism. If I hold back there is the chance he will step up.</p><p>Lesson 3: Let it be on him. Don't make it so easy on him. Reiterating here, let him do the work. Let him own it.</p><p></p><p>Thank you, people.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 712420, member: 18958"] You guys are answering with one voice. Let me see if I understand. Lesson 1: Pick my fights. Everybody needs and seeks a sense of autonomy. He can either exert it positively and constructively, or as resistance, by dragging his feet. Don't do the work for him by micro-managing and over-controlling. He will resist. And he will not own his efforts. Lesson 2: Minimalism. If I hold back there is the chance he will step up. Lesson 3: Let it be on him. Don't make it so easy on him. Reiterating here, let him do the work. Let him own it. Thank you, people. [/QUOTE]
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