Copa....what Tanya said was my very hard lesson as well. I vote for Option 2.....and I think you both need a break from each other. I am saying that most sincerely, not be to hurtful. He is a grown man and deserves the right to take the life path he sees as fit. Perhaps some space from his day to day or week to week will help you both gain some perspective. I am not suggesting no contact. Perhaps meet once a week for a Sunday dinner. But during that time I would suggest you let him carry the conversation and just listen. He needs to be heard, accepted and I think that is how you can best support him right now, without drawing yourself into his life. He will invite you in when he is ready. It may not be on our timetable, but then again, we have our own lives to rebuild, and our own happiness to create for ourselves. Hugs to you wonderful lady!!!!
