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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 712438" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Lil, this is for you. You tried EVERYTHING to keep your son warm and safe but nothing worked because he apparently maybe prefers to live on the edge. Some people do.</p><p></p><p>With our kids, easy or hard, it is not about us when they are adults. Do you think my fitst choice of a job for my daighter was police officer? With all ths killings? The danger? I am proud of her bit know this is a higher risk job than average but it was and is her passion so she has never once heard anuthing from us but praise and encouragement. It is not about my fears. It is sbout her identity, dreams and her path. I bury my fear to support her path.</p><p></p><p>Also I know my autistic son works for a small restairant and at Game Stop and did not go to college, but to me he is a super star. He was born with crack in his system. We knew that probably would limit him so we went into this blessed adoprion without expectations on any direction and he exceeded every doctors predictions. So what if he isnt a college grad? He is a very hard working, kind, loving person. That counts first with me and my husband. </p><p></p><p>Lil, thanks for explaining SSI. Its hard to get and you need lots of medical back up. If you have it, its because you have proven to the greedy govt. that you are not capable of sustaining yourself. Its not about laziness or every lazy person would run for it. Most on SSI wish they didnt need it. </p><p></p><p>Anyone on SSI can get a job too and the Dept. Of Rehab Development will train and help you and even coach you at work. Very few on SSI are capable of being high level employees. You do not get SSI if you can sustain yourself that way. Yes, our SSI kids may be smart but they do have disabilities that impair them from processing well, or attending to task, or understanding etc. Mental illness can impair you as well and sometimes it is a valid reason why one cant work.</p><p></p><p>Not everyone in this world can be a doctor or even finish college just by working hard. Some do not have the ability. Period. It is nothing to be ashamed of. We are made differently.</p><p></p><p>Off my soap box and back to my corner <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 712438, member: 1550"] Lil, this is for you. You tried EVERYTHING to keep your son warm and safe but nothing worked because he apparently maybe prefers to live on the edge. Some people do. With our kids, easy or hard, it is not about us when they are adults. Do you think my fitst choice of a job for my daighter was police officer? With all ths killings? The danger? I am proud of her bit know this is a higher risk job than average but it was and is her passion so she has never once heard anuthing from us but praise and encouragement. It is not about my fears. It is sbout her identity, dreams and her path. I bury my fear to support her path. Also I know my autistic son works for a small restairant and at Game Stop and did not go to college, but to me he is a super star. He was born with crack in his system. We knew that probably would limit him so we went into this blessed adoprion without expectations on any direction and he exceeded every doctors predictions. So what if he isnt a college grad? He is a very hard working, kind, loving person. That counts first with me and my husband. Lil, thanks for explaining SSI. Its hard to get and you need lots of medical back up. If you have it, its because you have proven to the greedy govt. that you are not capable of sustaining yourself. Its not about laziness or every lazy person would run for it. Most on SSI wish they didnt need it. Anyone on SSI can get a job too and the Dept. Of Rehab Development will train and help you and even coach you at work. Very few on SSI are capable of being high level employees. You do not get SSI if you can sustain yourself that way. Yes, our SSI kids may be smart but they do have disabilities that impair them from processing well, or attending to task, or understanding etc. Mental illness can impair you as well and sometimes it is a valid reason why one cant work. Not everyone in this world can be a doctor or even finish college just by working hard. Some do not have the ability. Period. It is nothing to be ashamed of. We are made differently. Off my soap box and back to my corner :) [/QUOTE]
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