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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 750917" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>Forgive me for posting so much. It helps me.</p><p></p><p>I just noticed somebody paid your daughter's fines. Honestly, we paid for Kay's tickets (one was a DUI) too. We bought her three cars. She had three accidents. Bad ones. All her fault. We cleaned up for her. Kay has never paid for a thing in her life. She has never had a job that lasted beyond a week. Her husband delivers pizzas for now. He never had a job outside of at a restaurant. I imagine they grow and sell pot too. Our picking up Kay's messes made her helpless and unwilling to work and angry at us for no longer funding her life.</p><p></p><p>Kay once threw a dangerous object at my son when he mumbled at her to tie her tubes when she was screaming at us that we had to buy this and that for the baby. Now its not like my son to get nasty and he spoke very softly and maybe he should not have said that, but she could have killed him if the object had hit him. It missed and shattered loudly against the wall beside him. Police were called. I was crying and I don't cry.</p><p></p><p>Kay was never allowed inside of our home again. But we did pay six months of rent on several apartments for her. This was after we had bought her a small but nice little house which did not work out then a cheap mobile home that the whole family fixed up for her, but they got way behind on the lot rent and you can imagine the ending there. They had to sell for a dime.</p><p></p><p>Kay never learned to adult nor did Lee. I am heartsick over this and because of her friend calling me last night, the wounds are newly fresh. I feel guilty again. After all she did, I still feel guilty and like a bad mother.</p><p></p><p>I don't know why I am telling you this. More for myself than anyone. I sure hope your daughter does not turn out to be helpless. That is the worst consequence when we enable. Watching my adult child falling behind 21 year olds makes me heartsick. Kay could never function on her own. Lee manages to hold her up enough that she hasn't lost it completely, yet he is also a child. One day they will fall apart together. I feel it coming.</p><p></p><p>Speaking of child,I have no doubt that one day they will also lose custody of Jaden. And I think Kay should tie her tubes, although I would never say so nor would she ever do it.</p><p></p><p>Wishing you the best. Hoping things work out. Sending you prayers.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 750917, member: 23706"] Forgive me for posting so much. It helps me. I just noticed somebody paid your daughter's fines. Honestly, we paid for Kay's tickets (one was a DUI) too. We bought her three cars. She had three accidents. Bad ones. All her fault. We cleaned up for her. Kay has never paid for a thing in her life. She has never had a job that lasted beyond a week. Her husband delivers pizzas for now. He never had a job outside of at a restaurant. I imagine they grow and sell pot too. Our picking up Kay's messes made her helpless and unwilling to work and angry at us for no longer funding her life. Kay once threw a dangerous object at my son when he mumbled at her to tie her tubes when she was screaming at us that we had to buy this and that for the baby. Now its not like my son to get nasty and he spoke very softly and maybe he should not have said that, but she could have killed him if the object had hit him. It missed and shattered loudly against the wall beside him. Police were called. I was crying and I don't cry. Kay was never allowed inside of our home again. But we did pay six months of rent on several apartments for her. This was after we had bought her a small but nice little house which did not work out then a cheap mobile home that the whole family fixed up for her, but they got way behind on the lot rent and you can imagine the ending there. They had to sell for a dime. Kay never learned to adult nor did Lee. I am heartsick over this and because of her friend calling me last night, the wounds are newly fresh. I feel guilty again. After all she did, I still feel guilty and like a bad mother. I don't know why I am telling you this. More for myself than anyone. I sure hope your daughter does not turn out to be helpless. That is the worst consequence when we enable. Watching my adult child falling behind 21 year olds makes me heartsick. Kay could never function on her own. Lee manages to hold her up enough that she hasn't lost it completely, yet he is also a child. One day they will fall apart together. I feel it coming. Speaking of child,I have no doubt that one day they will also lose custody of Jaden. And I think Kay should tie her tubes, although I would never say so nor would she ever do it. Wishing you the best. Hoping things work out. Sending you prayers. [/QUOTE]
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